Group sex.................? If your in a committed relationship is group sex wrong? |
| I don't think it is healty to share you body with anyone other than your partner and vice versa. |
Is it wierd to prefer group sex to just a single partner? I'm at college and have been having mainly group sex for the past few months. I still hook up with single girls a lot but it doesn't turn me on as much as a group. Is this normal? Has anyone else found this? |
| It is not normal! |
Does wanting to be in a larger group of friends mean that the person likes group sex? Weird I know but that's what I was wondering. If you prefer to be in a big group of friends instead of a one or a few close friends does that mean they don't like to have a relationship one on one and want to be in a group? Group sex?
Can a person that likes to be in a group just talk with someone one on one or do they not like that? |
| no, it doesn't mean one wants to have group sex. what an odd question. |
Does jealousy and intimacy play a role during group sex activities? Does jealousy and intimacy play a role during group sex activities? For example, would a person become jealous of another while taking turns or sharing a partner with others in the group sex event? This would obviously involve more than one partner. |
I can only speak to my own personal experience, so please don't assume I am trying to make assumptions for anyone else or society as a whole.
When my boyfriend and I first began talking about swinging it was my idea. I am a little bit of a voyeur and I loved the idea of watching him with another woman. However, I also know that I am an extremely jealous person when it comes to him, so we set out very strict guidelines (i.e. no tongue kissing, he couldn't do anything to her he wouldn't do to me, etc.) We spent many months trying to find the perfect couple. While his looks didn't really matter she had to be pretty enough for him to want her, but not prettier than me (self-centered I know, so shoot me)
Anyway, the point is that after all this planning and rule setting and searching I still found myself jealous. "That's my man" I found myself thinking. "Look at me." We did try it again another time and this time I joined in. He had a similar reaction seeing me with another man even though he was otherwise occupied. So, yes, for us, jealousy does count. However, the experience did make us appreciate each other more. |
Where in the bible does it say that group sex is wrong? I mean is there a biblical passage anywhere that says group sex is a sin? Im sure there is, but I can't find it. Please, this is a serious question, so no nonsense. |
You already know the verse Exodus 20:14
"Thou shalt not commit adultery."
The definition of adultery in the dictionary is "Voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a partner other than the lawful spouse."
1 Corinthians 6:18-20 & 1 Corinthians 7:1-2
"Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's. Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband."
The dictionary meaning of the word "fornication" means any unlawful sexual intercourse including adultery. In the Bible the Greek definition of the word "fornication" means to commit illicit sexual intercourse. What constitutes unlawful sex? Whose laws do we live by? Worldly standards or laws many times do not always line up with the Word of God. The founding fathers of the United States established many laws that were originally based on Christian standards and the laws of the Bible. However, through time the United States has drifted far from these standards and at the present our moral standards are shocking the world. However, immorality is not only found in the U.S. but is a world-wide epidemic. Societies throughout history and around the globe have embraced sexual standards that are called sins in the Bible.
Fornication is not just tolerated in our society but is actually being encouraged. The sin of fornication is being committed even among Christians, as many couples "live together" and have sex before marriage. The Bible tells us to flee this sin. We have counseled Christians of the opposite sex who share an apartment and they told us they were not having sex so this surely wasn't wrong. The Bible declares these words in 1 Thessalonians 5:22-23:
"Abstain from all appearance of evil. And the very God of peace sanctify you wholly; and I pray God your whole spirit and soul and body be preserved blameless unto the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ."
Our lives as Christians are a living witness to others and we cannot break the laws of God without hindering others from coming to Christ. We must live our lives in purity before a sinful and wicked world. We should not be living according to their standards but according to God's standard in the Bible. |
Does jealousy and intimacy play a role during group sex activities? and why? Does jealousy and intimacy play a role during group sex activities? For example, would a person become jealous of another while taking turns or sharing a partner with others in the group sex event? This would obviously involve more than one partner. |
Yea...
YOU'RE DEF. not the REAL Rainman!!
~No salams for you. |
The group sex or orgy scene in Eyes Wide Shut - your interpretation? I just can't stop analyzing this scene. It's so surreal, scary and yet magnetic. What do people think it's message is? Does it (or does Kubrick rather) approve of group sex like this or is it against it? |
Kubrick got into trouble alone time ago for something sexual predator or something. He is a great director who doesnt live in the USA but in a country with no expedition treaty with the USA.
He's a weird cat..... Clockwork Orange, Eyes Wide SHut both have very disturbing scenes.
I never thought there was a message other then trying to illicit a reaction out of their viewers.
Evidently it did for you. A raw energy and maybe a slight curiosity?
I think we all have thought about it, but in our society it's taboo and frowned upon to the point of brainwashing us to believe it's BAD.
Who knows its interpretation |
What should a person do if their neighbors are having group sex and exchanging spouses.? When you are aware of one of their groups cronic Hepititis C infection. Should I say something to them or the the health department? They have small guyren and I'm afraid that they are in danger.
Sex is a natural experience with adults and should be enjoyed but the exposure in this group can lead to serious health problems even death.
What should I do, if anything, or let them have their fun now and pay later? |
| Mind your business |
Do you dream of having fun or group sex? I know its wild but i watched this in one movie and since then the concept of group sex just captured my wild thoughts. I seem to be slave of this thought. What can i do to overcome this? Have you also had same thoughts? I know its weired but pls help |
| nope i had thoghts la dat with my gf nly......to overcome jus pray to god dats it |
Is there a type of abuse that contributes to a girl's (or guy's) desire for group sex? Just curious if there is something that plays into a group sex fetish or if it is random. Is there any psychology behind it? |
| Generally, girls who were not loved very much as guyren crave attention. Many of these girls crave being the centre of attention and one way to be the centre is to take part in group sex. Having multiple men insert their penises into her various holes makes her feel wanted. |